1) do not pick fights over trivial things because you feel like arguing about them. especially when said fight is against a group of people not an individual. in other words, sorry. my argument is not with you, but against the annoying teeny buffy/angel-ers that still think they'll have a chance at getting back together "bcoz dey luv each udda!!!!!!!!!" when, even if they did, they wouldn't be happy. okay, so that's true of buffy/spike, as well, but at least he doesn't turn into a killer when they have sex. and there i go again. ignore me. it's not important. sorry.
2) stop cheating at scrabble. it's only a game. even if it sucks to lose all the sodding time. it's not worth the aggravation.
3) be sane and sensible about "cats". (it's a perfectly legitimate note to self, even if it's never going to happen...)